Presence, Security

No, I Will Not Buy You a Chicken

February 7, 2026

Seahorse Statue fountain in Kampot, Cambodia. Photo by my daughter, who did not buy the middle-aged man a chicken.

My daughter did not buy the middle-aged man a chicken.

She has been traveling throughout Asia since last November and had just arrived in Kampot, a good-sized city in Cambodia known for Kampot pepper. Kampot pepper is said to be the finest pepper in the world. It’s the first Cambodian product to receive “Protected Geographical Indication Status” from the European Union, which means it has the same legal protection and status as Champagne and Roquefort cheese. The town is nestled along a river and is a favorite of expats. She’d had a long day of travel that included two hours of waiting for a train that ended up being an hour late.

She checked into her hostel and headed to a small convenience store just to buy shampoo.

She was at the counter, paying for her items, when a white man burst in (probably American, judging from his accent) and made a beeline for her. He ignored everyone else in the store, told her he hadn’t eaten all day, said he was hungry, and asked if she could buy him a chicken.

She said no. Just no.

After she spoke, he said, “Are you American? Where are you from?”

She said, “I do not want to talk right now,” or something close to that. But he didn’t go away. He kept pushing, pushing.

Finally, she said, “Yo, dude! I’m a broke backpacker too. Why are you even asking me this?”

Finally, he left.

Thankfully, he left.

I was so proud of her. Continue Reading…

Security

Little Boy with a Spiderman Backpack

January 24, 2026

The flowers are starting to bloom here. It’s too early, I know. But it feels like they bring a little light, which is very much needed today.

Sometimes there are no words—or the words I have fail me.

I was feeling a little proud of myself this morning because I got up and wrote. I wrote about the five-year-old little boy with the Spiderman backpack and bunny ear hat who was taken by ICE, and how that photo broke my heart.

That was this morning.

A few hours passed, and now it is evening, and in the meantime, a man was executed by ICE in Minneapolis.

We thought the news last week was horrible. It was. But apparently, the horribleness continues with no sign of stopping. If anything, it seems to be exploding.

I was moved by footage I saw yesterday of about 100 clergy members, people of faith, being arrested during a demonstration at the Minneapolis airport.

I wonder if I would be brave enough to kneel with other people of faith to protest ICE.

I hope so.

Brave people in Minneapolis are putting their bodies and livelihoods on the line to protest ICE. The man who was killed today was doing that. The faith leaders who were arrested earlier this week were released and issued misdemeanor citations. What would it be like, to kneel in prayer and have an officer grab you and usher you away? What would it be like, to be thrown to the ground by ICE agents, beaten, and murdered?

My favorite priest Richard Rohr keeps reminding me that death is a necessary part of getting to resurrection. Once again, as I’ve stated before, I am not a fan of this—at all. I would like my life to be comfortable and safe without any pain, prison, or death on the agenda. Sunshine, unicorns, rainbows, lollipops? Sign me up. Continue Reading…