Success

Bowing to the god of Success- Again.

August 24, 2018

(Just a note: I wrote this a few weeks ago, but didn’t finish polishing it up until today. My daughter is already back in school, settling into her senior year. The parental angst that I describe here, though? Sadly, still an issue.)

Who wouldn’t want to live here? Cabot House, one of Harvard’s undergraduate residential houses

Today, I am feeling bad because we didn’t sign my daughter up for a summer program at a prestigious university.  Honestly, I never even considered it. The flyers for these summer experiences started arriving in the mail last winter. The programs claim to combine academic enrichment, fun, and the opportunity for soon to be high school seniors to spend time on a college campus. They get to stay in the dorms, eat in the dining halls, and meet teens from around the country. The flyers were enticing, but after a quick glance at the cost, we recycled them.  I didn’t think any more about it.

Lately, though, she’s been seeing photos on social media of her friends enjoying some of these programs. They have flown off to Johns Hopkins, UCSD, and American University in Washington, DC. In these pictures, they are beaming with their new best friends. They love the schools and are having so much fun!  I confess that I am jealous for her. I wish she could be there, too.  I wish we had extra money to invest in a summer college experience for her.

Part of me knows that participation in these programs does not guarantee admission to a selective university. In fact, I’ve heard that all it does is tell admissions officers is that your family  doesn’t need financial aid. Continue Reading…

Presence

What I Did Today

August 15, 2018

If nothing else today,  I was kind to the birds. I refilled their feeders and the bird bath.  I watered the front and back flower beds and even remembered to turn the water off afterward, so as to avoid what happened last week when I left the hose on the artichoke plant so long that it filled up the pot and overflowed through the deck to the ground below.  It’s a tricky spigot and I thought it was turned off. Nope. It just dripped for a day or so before I looked outside and noticed a lovely reflection in the artichoke’s pot, which had been transformed into a mini-pond.  Surprisingly, the artichoke plant seems no worse for its soaking. It actually looks healthier than ever. I think there must be a lesson there,  some kind of unexpected grace.

If nothing else today, I went outside. I went for a run before it got hot.  I made sure that happened before I got tangled up in the chores of the day. I then did a load of laundry and took my son to his friend’s house for a swim party, his last hurrah before school starts tomorrow. I checked the oil in my daughter’s car and added a quart and filled up her gas tank. I mailed the check for the dog’s license renewal. I recycled a load of cardboard at the recycling place. Before I left there, I grabbed a stack of newspapers and clean boxes and then headed to my Mom’s where I wrapped up the last of her glassware.  I am numb now to this wrapping. So many of her treasures, so much left unsold after the estate and garage sale. The kind organizers of our annual community yard sale have agreed to come with trucks to my Mom’s this Sunday to load up some of what remains for their big Labor Day weekend sales event. All proceeds benefit our little town’s historic school house. I think my Mom would approve. I hope so, anyway.

If nothing else today, I showed up here. I wrote some words and shared them, all on the same day. I almost never do that.

It is the last night of summer. It was a beautiful day.