(Just a note: I wrote this a few weeks ago, but didn’t finish polishing it up until today. My daughter is already back in school, settling into her senior year. The parental angst that I describe here, though? Sadly, still an issue.)

Who wouldn’t want to live here? Cabot House, one of Harvard’s undergraduate residential houses
Today, I am feeling bad because we didn’t sign my daughter up for a summer program at a prestigious university. Honestly, I never even considered it. The flyers for these summer experiences started arriving in the mail last winter. The programs claim to combine academic enrichment, fun, and the opportunity for soon to be high school seniors to spend time on a college campus. They get to stay in the dorms, eat in the dining halls, and meet teens from around the country. The flyers were enticing, but after a quick glance at the cost, we recycled them. I didn’t think any more about it.
Lately, though, she’s been seeing photos on social media of her friends enjoying some of these programs. They have flown off to Johns Hopkins, UCSD, and American University in Washington, DC. In these pictures, they are beaming with their new best friends. They love the schools and are having so much fun! I confess that I am jealous for her. I wish she could be there, too. I wish we had extra money to invest in a summer college experience for her.
Part of me knows that participation in these programs does not guarantee admission to a selective university. In fact, I’ve heard that all it does is tell admissions officers is that your family doesn’t need financial aid. Continue Reading…







