Power, Presence

The Grandmother Rocks

April 3, 2021

On the one lane bridge.

Today, my son and I took a spring break day trip to Sutter’s Mill, otherwise known as the Marshall Gold Discovery State Historic Park, in Coloma. It’s only an hour’s car ride away, but it was his first time there. It is easy to feel a little pang of parental guilt over that. How is it that we had never visited, when it is relatively so close? There should not be any state parks within a one hour driving time that he has not seen, since we have lived here for oh, the last nine years or so, and state parks are one of the great gifts of this place.

I packed a picnic of sandwiches, oranges, and cold lime fizzy waters. Biscuit, the blanket stealing dog, rode along. Mainly, it seemed important to get out of the house, to do something that might set this day apart from all our other spring break days. We have a week for spring break, but we hadn’t done anything yet that felt special at all. Each day, it seemed, brought some kind of business that had to be taken care of. I had to drive to town for a little work (which I am always grateful for), or the dog had an appointment for his yearly checkup and vaccinations (you don’t want to let the rabies vaccine get too overdue), or we had to stay close to home in case my son’s new cell phone might finally arrive in the mail, which it did, late Monday morning, much to his joy.

It was a beautiful day. The American River rolls alongside the park. There is an historic one lane bridge that crosses it, so you can explore both sides. Continue Reading…

Presence

Things that Make You Cranky

March 27, 2021

Write something.

Start by thinking that it is beautiful outside. And cool, with a brisk wind. The daffodils are swinging in the breeze. Start by thinking that this would be a delightful way to start a post.

Go to turn on the computer so you can write this and spill your tea. A good half a cup of it  slowly drifts across the table toward all the important electronics that people have stowed there: your son’s fancy, treasured headphones. Your daughter’s professional camera that she bought with her own money after working at a trendy pizza restaurant last summer. The ancient iPad, that your son is now using because his phone is broken in a big way.

About the phone?

His old one: very broken. Half the screen is dark. He is 16. This is a crisis.

He finds a reasonable replacement with the added bonus that, “Mom! It is 5G!” This means nothing to you. Who cares about the 5G? But he is so excited, and his new phone arrives in the mail yesterday from a trusted seller on Swappa. You have had such good luck with Swappa. You buy all your replacement phones and devices there. You have even used this seller before!

Except somehow, this particular phone was reported as lost or stolen, so Verizon won’t activate it. Your son has been so anxious to get this phone. Your husband takes time off work to drive him to the Verizon store to see if they can sort it out. Continue Reading…